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The Recipe for Respect and Recognition
There's a simple (not easy) recipe for respect and recognition. You hold the key, and it's something most people discover by accident, if ever. Permission. Permission to protect your time. Permission to challenge a flawed process. Permission to say "I need to think about this" instead of reflexively saying yes. Here's what I've learned from coaching leaders for years: You don't need to be the most senior person in the room to have conviction about what matters. But you do

Lisa Stryker
Nov 251 min read


A Simple Way to Raise Your Confidence
Worried your manager thinks you're in over your head? Wondering if you really belong at the leadership table? Try this simple confidence-boosting habit. Tracking your wins. When you step into a bigger role, your brain is looking for proof that you belong there. Without evidence, the old stories—"I'm not ready," "I got lucky," "I don't belong"—stay in charge. So you need to deliberately collect data: compliments received, problems solved, support offered, ideas advanced. You'

Lisa Stryker
Nov 61 min read


Feel like an imposter? It could be jet lag.
I was really surprised. It was 4:30 p.m., three days after we'd returned from vacation in Italy. And I felt ready for bed. "How long will it take for my body to realize we're back in the Eastern time zone?" I asked my cat, Jojo, the only one around. Jet lag lingered for almost a full week as my body and brain readjusted to the six-hour time difference. Thankfully, I had sunshine and clock time to guide me. But when you experience a similar effect at work, like my client Melis

Lisa Stryker
Oct 283 min read


Developing a Bias for Action
I know that the thought of getting called out for being wrong or underprepared makes your stomach turn. But holding back until you're...

Lisa Stryker
Sep 161 min read


Are you too humble?
Most of what people know about your work comes from you. Here's why this is a problem... We're conditioned to minimize our successes......

Lisa Stryker
Sep 111 min read


It's your responsibility to B.R.A.G.
Here's why self-promotion is one of your most important responsibilities: What if you're the answer to someone's biggest problem and they...

Lisa Stryker
Sep 41 min read


Stop trying to be more confident. Do this instead.
I wish you'd stop trying to be more confident. Here's why... It's creating a lot of overthinking, self-doubt and second-guessing. All the...

Lisa Stryker
Aug 282 min read


Why You Can't Ignore Office Politics
If you want to change the game, you have to be in the game. So don't dismiss office politics. I worked with a dedicated corporate...

Lisa Stryker
Aug 252 min read


My $150k Mistake
I used to lead crisis communications. The kind where cameras are rolling, microphones are shoved in your face, and reporters drill the same tough question over and over, waiting for you to flinch. I knew how to hold my own under pressure. Think on my feet. Manage the message. Tell our story clearly, confidently and memorably. That's why what happened later left me shocked and shattered. I was tapped to lead the first-ever social media team at a Fortune 150 company. Ten people

Lisa Stryker
Aug 252 min read


Are you caught on the overthinker hamster wheel?
Are you caught on the overthinker hamster wheel? No matter how much time you spend preparing to present your plan to leadership, there's...

Lisa Stryker
Nov 19, 20242 min read


Is Waiting Until You Have the "Right" Answer Holding You Back?
Of course, you think it’s best to come up with an airtight idea or solution before you share it. We’re taught that mistakes are bad.

Lisa Stryker
Apr 24, 20242 min read


Imposter Syndrome Makes You Arrogant
"You come off a little arrogant, Lisa." I was shocked. I felt like such an imposter. How could I be arrogant? It was my first lead role...

Lisa Stryker
Nov 28, 20231 min read
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