Are you too humble?
- Lisa Stryker

- Sep 11
- 1 min read
Most of what people know about your work comes from you.
Here's why this is a problem...
We're conditioned to minimize our successes...
"Oh, that wasn't such a big thing. It was a team effort, and Jen's analysis drove such great insights."
and advertise our failures...
"My presentation didn't go how I planned it at all. I could tell I lost them halfway through. I wish I'd prepared more."
We think this makes us more likeable, relatable and professional.
But here's how these habits undermine your credibility:
Minimizing your impact trains others to see you as non-essential, in a support role rather than a leader.
Over time, they'll see you as replaceable.
Focusing on failures raises or confirms doubts about your strategic approach, self-management and capability.
Over time, it suggests you're not ready for more responsibility.
When you talk about your work, always ask yourself this question:
"What do I want them to remember about me from this moment?"
Every conversation is an opportunity to elevate your reputation.



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